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Mozart920

Opening post by Mozart920

I would ask the people of the forum not to bury my post irreverently.

Dunque.. I am a lover of the Viennese school, and I wouldn't miss a single work by Mozart for anything in the world. The only deeply discordant note every time I go to the theater is that I have to do it alone. I find myself unable to share the experience with anyone. Is it possible that classical music is necessarily a senile passion? I refuse to believe it, and yet I have never known anyone who shares my passion, not even through friends of friends of acquaintances and relatives. Perhaps it's because I didn't attend conservatory; in fact, I don't play any orchestral instrument—let's just say I am active on the passive side, that of the listener, and not on the active side of the musician.

Dunque here is the announcement (and hold your laughter).

Seeking a girl between 20 and 27 years old (I am 24) passionate about the genre in the Northeast who would be interested in going out in the evening to go to the theater. Favorite destination: La Fenice.

I am not looking for a romantic relationship; in fact, I would say physical appearance is irrelevant. It is not beauty that I am seeking; it would be a case of this post being misunderstood. In any case, I am a perfectly normal person and not the Loch Ness monster, so even if that factor were relevant to you, there would be no issues. Simply put, I would like to meet a female exponent with a taste for Music.

In the remote case that the announcement should meet with interest, contact me via private message.

End of announcement!

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Reply 4 by LucaCavaliere

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Ludovica wrote:

I have a question: why is the age factor relevant?

i have an answer . . . > because they are under 30.

Let me explain. I have observed that before 30 (let's say 30), even for hobbies and passions, one prefers to hang out more or less with peers. And the younger you are, the more intransigent you are regarding the acceptable surroundings (try asking - generally - 12-year-old kids to accept a little 9-year-old among them...)

After age 30, when sharing the same passions, decades no longer matter.

P.S. dear Mozart920... I understand you very well in your request.

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Reply 5 by Piccinesco

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Uhm, in some ways it can be, but back then (I'm talking about when I was 18/20 years old) I would have enjoyed talking about music even with people much older than me; it depends on one's motivations.

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Reply 6 by LucaCavaliere

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Piccinesco wrote:

Yes, it's true.

in fact, I had the pleasure of talking to people older than me (my music Professor, the parents of some of my playmates).

But as far as peers were concerned (both at 12 and 22 years old), I was in a situation like Mozart920... And I missed it.

Internet was also missing back then...

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Reply 7 by Zazza

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LucaCavaliere wrote:

... And I was missing.

Internet was also missing back then...

.... and just think that you survived ...

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Reply 10 by Annuccia

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In fact, this thing isn't clear to me either, I mean. If one is looking for a person with whom to share an endless "relational" passion... it makes sense, but if someone is truly alone and cannot share, why not also a friend?

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Reply 11 by Piccinesco

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Because (being malicious) music could actually be the means through which one seeks a relationship with a girl.

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Reply 12 by Thesimon

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I must admit that specifying age and gender opens up paths of reasoning. Personally, if I enjoy listening to music with someone, their gender and age are indifferent... But we shouldn't necessarily think the worst right away. After all, if I were single, if I had to go listen to the opera with someone, I would prefer it to be female and my age; a friendship could develop and then who knows, maybe one thing leads to another...

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