Oops! Your post only just appeared to me... something strange must have happened, one of mine appeared twice. Anyway, tell me if I understood correctly: do you put the root (preferably the tonic) in the bass with your left hand? Or in the right-hand arrangement? Let me explain: if someone has to accompany alone, they generally put the roots in the bass and with the right hand, or with the right hand and the other fingers of the left, they arrange the chord; if there is also a bass player, you can omit the root; if you have to accompany yourself during a solo (always with the bass), you will use the left hand without the roots, in 3 or 4 parts.
Generally speaking, I would use this system:
_ in 3 parts (from low to high):
3, 7 and a tension (generally the 9) or another chordal note;
7, 3 and a tension (generally the 13) or another chordal note;
_ in 4 parts:
3, 7 and two tensions or one tension and one chordal note;
7, 3 and two tensions or one tension and one chordal note.
For example: G7
in 3 parts (from low to high):
_F, B, E (13) [or also Eb (b13) or D# (#5), or Db (b5) or C# (#11) or D (chordal, 5)].
_B, F, A (9) [or also Ab (b9), A# (#9), or G (chordal, root);
let's say that this way you always have (when possible) the notes that define the harmonic function of the chord and with the left thumb you choose the tensions to add depending on the harmonic context.
in 4 parts (two hands):
_F, B, E (and all possible variants), A (and all possible variants);
_B, F, A (and all possible variants), E (and all possible variants);
If you have to play these chords with a single hand, it is almost always possible to transpose the highest voice an octave lower.
If there is a bass player, you can almost always omit the root and often the fifth, when it is not altered. The chord should maintain its functionality.
Then it is also a matter of personal taste.
If this was the meaning of your question, I hope I have been helpful.